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The CRAVE rules may seem strict, they have been created to ensure all our guests have a great time at our parties.
ABIDING BY THE RULES If you want to come to a CRAVE party, you agree to follow our rules. No ‘ifs’, no ‘buts’. If you don’t agree with any of them, then we’d prefer if you didn’t apply. PRIVACY The location of our events are strictly confidential; privacy of our guests is absolutely essential. We want people to know they are in a safe and protected environment so they can party confidentially. If we tell you details about a CRAVE party, that information is not to be passed on to anyone without our permission. RECORDING All cameras and recording devices of all descriptions are banned. This includes picture phones and video phones. Please keep all phones locked away and turned off. Anyone seen using a phone may be asked to leave. TURN UP TOGETHER Single men are not allowed at our events. So even if you have may have paid as a couple, if you turn up alone, you will not be admitted. NO SWAPPING (BEFOREHAND!) Invitations to our parties are personal and non-transferable. No one whose details and photo have not been submitted in advance will be admitted. We select couples as couples and if you turn up with a different partner you are a different couple and your Invitation is void. DON’T BRING YOUR FRIENDS Only couples we have invited will be admitted. Others will be turned away however strongly they may be recommended to us. Our selection process is very competitive with sometimes room for only around half of new applicants to be successful each time. We issue invitations to as many couples as the venue can comfortably accommodate. There is no room for walk-ins, nor is it fair on those who have applied (whether successful or not) to admit people who have not been through the same selection process as everyone else. If you want your friends to come, they must apply in the normal way. REAL COUPLES We insist that the couples at our parties are ‘real’ couples – you must have a genuine sexual relationship, although it doesn’t have to be an exclusive one (obviously!). Friends who team up just to find out “what it’s like” are not acceptable. NO PROFESSIONALS We are happy for couples at our parties to have any sort of sexual relationship with each other – except punter and prostitute. BE THOUGHFUL IN THE PLAYROOMS Do not distract people enjoying themselves by holding loud conversations. Do not smoke in the playrooms and please try to avoid taking your glasses and drinks into them too. If you wish to join in any activity in the play rooms, you MUST ask before you engage with anyone. ARRIVE ON TIME To ensure the party reaches critical mass in time for everyone to have fun, we ask guests to arrive between 9 and 10 pm. In addition our staff are volunteers and they don’t want to stand on door duty all night. Special arrangements can always be made to admit couples late if a problem is notified in advance. DRESS CODE We don’t have a strict dress code, we only ask that people enter into the spirit of the evening. Women tend to wear their sexiest, slinkiest outfits – cocktail dresses or any special creations – while most guys are in smart casual stuff. There won’t be much fetish gear around, maybe some PVC or leather or some chains. But if you have a zipped rubber gimp-mask, leave it at home. AC/DC Our parties are for straight men and straight and bisexual women. This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries. Couples with men who break this convention will be asked to leave. DON’T BE A PEST Social situations in swinging parties are subtle and fluid, so it is difficult to define pestering precisely. It certainly includes touching people if you have been rebuffed but it can also be less than that. Consent is the key to swinging and all couples should be sensitive to the reactions of others. If we feel or are told that you are pestering someone, you and your partner will be asked to leave. NO SELLING OR PROMOTING Our parties are not business opportunities. Approaching people at CRAVE parties to promote other products or events is an abuse of our hospitality. Anyone who does this will be asked to leave with their partner. COMPULSORY CONDOMS At CRAVE events, all penetrative sex between people who are not regular partners is with a condom unless explicitly agreed otherwise in advance. It is a man’s responsibility to use a condom without being prompted by the woman concerned and to signal to her in an appropriate way that he is doing so. Repeat: without being prompted by the woman concerned. It is a guy’s job to put a woman’s mind at ease without being asked. Everyone is absolutely entitled to expect this basic sexual hygiene practice. We act immediately and severely in response to complaints. We provide condoms but you’d be wise to carry a few yourselves, whether you are male or female! ONE WOMAN, ONE CONDOM Men must change condoms between sexual partners. Transferring an infection from one woman to another on the outside of a condom while the male is safe on the inside does not qualify as sexual hygiene. If a man is in a scene where he is alternating between women, the rule still applies unless they all, together, give their explicit verbal consent. There are plenty of condoms at our parties and it does not matter how many are used and discarded during a scene. AN EARLY BATH All our rules are reasonable. They represent a common sense way of enabling everyone to enjoy themselves. If we have to ask a couple to leave because they have broken these rules we will neither refund their contribution nor admit them to future events. |